Tuesday, March 10, 2015

Blog Assignment Week 2 Tia Smith-Personal and Professional

After a week of learning and reflecting, I am excited to start with a little personal information on my experiences in my classroom. First I want to start off my sharing my favorite quote about children:

"We worry about what a child will become tomorrow, yet we forget that he is someone today."
Stacia Tauscher
 
The reason why I love this quote so much is because I feel as educators sometimes we are so concerned with what the child should know and keep planning for the future, which is a good thing, but we sometimes forget to stop and have fun with the child as they are today. My class is full, at a two teacher ratio. We separate the class into two groups to do circle time because some of the children are on different levels when it comes to learning. I have the younger group so to make sure that when they move up to my co-teachers group, I have a list of things they should know before they move up. It is hard to try and remember that they are still young and not on the level of the other children. When I see them get frustrated because something is too hard, I take a step back and give them something easier to boost their self-confidence. Even at a young age they still have esteem issues. This is when I have to remember they are here today and they are going to be here and if they do not get the lesson today then we will try again tomorrow. When the pressure is eliminated, they seem to do better.
 
My favorite children's book of all time is "Oh The Places You'll Go" by Dr. Seuss. This book is a favorite for many reasons but the main reason being that it was a gift from my brother when I went to collage. A little back-story, my family is not super close. I am the oldest of four with the rest being boys (refer to my profile picture, giant boys at that;) Our family is just not one of those emotionally close families so when he gave me that book as a graduation gift not prompted by my parents just a thoughtful going away to collage gift, it really meant something. To this day, I still have it on my bookshelf. It has traveled with me for years and even though it is a little tattered and worn the meaning behind it will never fade. I always at least once a year bring it in for my "show and share" and read it to the children who are leaving to attend kindergarten. I love the message of the book. Even though most do not understand it until they have experienced life, it is just a comforting and uplifting book.
 
Through my ten years in the early childhood field I have had lots of children come and go through my many classes. I have been children's pseudo-mom being with some more than their own parents. One child however touched my heart and I will never forget. When I worked with toddlers, I had a little boy in my class who while coming out of the birth canal had a stroke. He was semi-paralyzed on his right side which led him to have physical disabilities and speech disabilities. He had trouble opening his hand to grasp things especially to feed himself. As you can imagine, him being the first child, his parents were hesitant of everything. They were standoffish and believed that they knew best and were not afraid to tell me. Every day when they would drop him off they would give me a list of things I should or should not do for/with him and everyday when they left I threw the list away. Not that I thought I knew better but I knew their child and knew that he was a strong and determined little boy. One day while we were playing he decided to pull up and try to walk. We practiced all day pulling up on things, walking with and without assistance until he took three steps all by himself! When his parents came to pick up they were in awe when we showed them what he could and wanted to do. Soon after they had therapists come to the school to help with other difficulties but I will never forget that special day. His face lit up when he realized what he had done and how much I cheered for him. He has gone on to excel and is now in second grade but every year I still get a card from them with his school picture.
 
 I believe being an educator is one of the hardest jobs out there and there are days when I want to throw my hands up and walk out and never look back, but there are those shining moments that make everything worth while. The love and appreciation of the children and their parents is something that I will always cherish.

 
 

8 comments:

  1. Hi Tia! Once again, I am drawn to your stories... :-) I am in TOTAL agreement with what you are saying in regards to being in the now with kids! I work with early childhood programs and the teachers in those programs, and I am on such a mission with the message of - "If we let them be 4 years old for the WHOLE year, they will be so ready to be 5!" We push and push our young kids in the name of "Kindergarten readiness", it just makes me crazy sometimes. Why do we make them do Kindergarten activities now, when they're only 4?? Yeah, I could go on and on...obviously. LOL

    I also love your special book you got from your brother :-) Not only because of the meaning behind it, but because it's a Seuss. Huge Seuss fan here!

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    1. Brooke-
      I love that we have some of the same views about this topic. It is nice to have professional non-biased conversations with someone who can understand what I am going through! I love my co-workers but some of them I do not think are mature enough or even interested enough in talking about these kinds of topics and I am very passionate about each and every child getting the best education! I look forward to many more conversations with you throughout!

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  2. I really like the story you shared, because I can relate to it some small ways. I love it when parents are excited about the things their children learn in our class, because it means we're doing our jobs as educators. I've heard some awful stories about daycare services, so it's reaffirming to hear your wonderful story. Thanks for sharing it!

    Your book is so appropriate for how close it is to Dr. Seuss week, by the way! :)

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    1. Amber-
      Those awful stories about daycares is one of the reasons I want to step up into a leadership position in the daycare field. I have worked at four different daycares (I tend to keep jobs for a while ha;) starting at the bottom at a 'daycare' and working my way up to a preschool. There is a difference and there should not be. It is not a very respected field and I want to change that because for every horrible 'teacher' there are at least 10 good enthusiastic ones who want to learn how to be professional and successful. Thanks for your post!!

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  3. Tia
    I loved your post, it was very interesting. Great book choice also. I attended a workshop and the instructor used this book as an awesome illustration.

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    1. Tamiko-
      Thank you! Since my mid-20s, I told myself that I would be an open book. If anyone who heard my stories or experiences and it helped them in some way then everything I have been through was completely worth it:)

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  4. hi tia
    Can I just say that your story was very touching.I agree that teaching is one of the hardest occupation and I appreciate that you get up every morning in hopes of shaping the future leaders of tomorrow. I used to sub teach and people would ask me how it is. I used to tell them that when you become a teacher you are giving this difficult task of trying to changing their minds from school to at home. So once again I applaud you for what you do. thank you

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    1. Ashley-
      Thank you SO much! As you have experienced we don't become teachers for the praise because so many people take educators for granted so when we re recognized it is really special so thank you! It is a hard profession and stressful and scary ha! But at the end of the day when those little arms wrap around you because they feel confident about themselves and about the day everything is put in perspective.

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